When MoBob and I were in Morocco, he lived in Tiznit and then Ouarzazate, and I lived in Rabat. Basically I was in San Francisco and he was in L.A. He came to Rabat often and I went south for work and for fun, so we saw each other at least every couple of weeks. This went on for three years.
Then I moved to Mali and he remained in Morocco. We visited each other and we went on home leave together. We spent two years this way.
Then I moved to Burkina Faso and he joined me there. But his job with Peace Corps meant staying at the training center during the week. He usually came back to Ouaga on most weekends.
Now we are actually living together but our schedules are totally off. I'm asleep when he's returns home at night and he's asleep when I leave in the morning.
My point is that when we were living physically apart, when we were together, we were actually together. Now that we are in the same household, we never see each other. So it was an especially lovely treat that MB was in the neighborhood today and we had lunch together. I really miss him. Oh, rather, I really miss seeing him awake.
i am un sure how you can live that wai i am currently living with my ex and its not that we dont see each its that hes never around and it pises me off how you can live with him and never see him and still manage to het along is surprising to me good luck to you both