B is for Boys and Boyfriends.
I went to a Catholic all-girls school for high school. Boys were always hovering at the edges: waiting after school, leaning against the gym walls at dances, playing various sports. But never in the classroom. It wasn't until college that I realized that boys could be, uh, smart. In high school I never competed against them academically, except in something like Academic Decathlon. It was quite a revelation.
My favorite Boy is MoBob. Of course!
I've been lucky too that I've never dated a loser. In fact, I contacted an ex-honey on behalf of a friend moving to his home town. A double Yalie (undergrad and MBA). This was his response. Still a sweetie, I see.
Of course you can give her my e-mail address. And I'm in NH now and have been for about 2 years. I may make my way back to NYC, but I really like it here.
Wishing you and your hubbie well.